What would you rather be… a taker or a giver…?

You must make a decision which side of the fence you want to be on in life.

The question above defines your character… Who are you? What do you want to be?

Please take a moment to ponder… if you have been a taker all your life… then this is the reason you expect too much from people… you’re frustrated when you to do not get what you want… you’re angry… the world is unfair… on the other hand… a giver never expects anything in return… the very act of giving is just so fulfilling that the more he gives… the more he wants to give… and vice versa… the more you take… the more you want to take… and there is just no end to it… it is like an addiction… the world is not even enough to fulfil your desires… since most of us have been takers… we are in fact in so much debt… that we can never ever repay all the services that we have taken from parents, family, relatives, friends… community… society… and Mother Nature… so how do you propose to pay back?.. it’s time to take on the other side… be a giver… start paying forward… how long can you live as a ‘debtor’?

So make your choice…

Your friend,

Joseph Bismark
Group Managing Director, QI Ltd